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So I kind of dropped the ball on posting today, but I still wanted to keep up with Blog Every Day in May and thought I would share a picture of my hair… which is now even more blonde! I was sitting in the salon for three hours to get my hair this light, takes a LOT of foil. Anyway, I’m really excited about the way it turned out! I think it will be fun for summer and who knows, maybe I’ll just stick with it for awhile. Here was my hair after my first trip to the salon.

And now for Blog Every Day in May. Today is the thing(s) you are most afraid of:

1. FAILURE. I think most people fear this. It is just that part of us that doesn’t want to disappoint others and mostly we don’t want to disappoint ourselves. I have felt like a failure a few times in life and even though it feels like the worst thing in the world at the time, I must admit I have also learned a lot about myself and life in these moments.

2. Losing someone close to me. After this past year, I lost two grandparents and have experienced what it is like to lose someone close to me. But I have also lost best friends and when you are used to talking to someone every day and then suddenly never talk to them again, it feels like they are dead even though they truthfully just aren’t a part of your life anymore. I am terrified of losing those closest to me because I know how painful it can be.

Weekend Update: Cinco de Mayo

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I hope you all had a wonderful weekend! Just sharing some pictures from yesterday, celebrating Cinco de Mayo with my friend Abby and her husband. It was so much fun and Abby even won one of the raffles! Happy Monday!

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 Outfit Details: Dress, Forever 21 (Old) :: Blazer, Charlotte Russe (Similar) :: Scarf, Charlotte Russe (Similar) :: Bracelets, Asos & c/o Sira Mara (Similar & Exact) :: Clutch, Christina Cupar (Won in Blog Giveaway) :: Wedges, JCrew via Goodwill for $6.99! (Time to paint those toe nails!)

And now for today’s Blog Every Day in May: What would I say I do if I couldn’t use my job?

I would say that I am an advocate of human rights, I am a writer (because I do this blog and journal in my free time), I dog mommy and I am a sister/friend/girlfriend who cares about all the people in my life, trying to help make everyone happy. This one is kind of hard because I think we always talk about our jobs first when someone asks us the question “What do you do?”

Heather of Pearls & Paws

Heather of Pearls & Paws

I AM SO EXCITED about today’s Blog Every Day in May because it gave me the perfect opportunity to talk to you about my dear blogger friend Heather from Pearls & Paws. I’m sure many of you already know about her fantastic fashion blog and adorable pup named Rex (seriously the cutest dog in the world) but if you don’t, before reading… check her out NOW :)

I discovered her blog fairly shortly after starting mine in November of 2011 and really loved her outfits and quirky, entertaining writing style. She always has a positive attitude in her posts and her personality just always seemed to shine through in her writing and outfits. I love her style because it is cute, feminine, affordable and practical!  She always has an element of surprise to each and every outfit, whether she is dressed up for work or dressed casually for the weekends. Oh and she always looks drop dead gorgeous!

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So this is how it all started: she once commented on this post when I was at a Twins Game and she said she was there too. I was like SWEET but didn’t think much of it because I know a ton of people who drive up from Iowa and other places to go to a Twins game, so I thought maybe she came from somewhere else.

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Luckily Heather took outfit photos in an area I recognized and I immediately realized she must live really close to me! She was just outside of one of my, well OUR, favorite restaurants in Eden Prairie, MN, Kona Grill! (I currently live in Eden Prairie and she is just one suburb over!) I love sushi and they have great happy hours. Turns out, Heather loves sushi and great happy hour specials too!

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So we decided to have a blogger date at Kona and well, let’s just say we hit it off on our first date :) We have formed a great friendship, relating not only on fashion blogging, but work, boyfriends, dogs and life in general. I have had fun watching Sex & the City with her, eating sushi and drinking wine, playing with our pups Rex and Emma and chatting about anything and everything. Oh and did I mention she’s a Packer fan? (Sorry other Minnesotans but when you’re from Iowa you kind of have to choose a team and my family has always been a huge fan of the Packers!) Well and she’s from Wisconsin, so obviously ;)

She is one of the sweetest people you will ever meet, but is also a go-getter traveling all the time for her position and teaching a marketing class. What an inspiration! And all while looking amazing each and every day. She is also very modest in her accomplishments, I mean you will find this girl PINNED all over Pinterest but I have never even heard her mention it. And balancing life with her fur baby and boyfriend while posting 4+ times a week? Yeah she is kind of a big deal and I am friends with her… I’m pretty darn lucky! :)

P.S. Happy Cinco de Mayo!

Favorite Quote

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My favorite quote for Blog Every Day in May. This is so true. Positive attitudes really do create extraordinary results. Anytime life brings me down and I want to complain about what’s going on, I have to remember this and how fortunate I am. The best moments of my life have been times where I have kept a positive attitude, even when I felt hopeless.

Cinco de Mayo!

Cinco De Mayo

 

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Doesn’t Cinco de Mayo make you think of aztec/trbial and boho prints?! Well it does for me and I’m so excited to celebrate with some friends on Sunday. Sunday FUNday of course! I will probably pull out some bright, festive colors even if it isn’t that warm. Hopefully it will be a nice day! P.S. all of these pieces are under $50!

And now… today’s Blog Every Day in May challenge is to talk about things that make you uncomfortable. I have a long list, but here are just a few that come to mind:

Let’s start with the serious ones:

  • Conflict. Let me get more specific … I mean in your face conflict where I feel like I want to crawl underneath a table and hide. At work. Between groups of friends. Other couples. I get a knot in my stomach when I feel like two other people are about to get in a fight about something. This might be the most uncomfortable type of situation to be in… ever. 
  • Speaking up at Work Meetings. I have only been in my job for a year and a half. I have so many ideas and always want to share my opinion, but i am so uncomfortable sharing these ideas in meetings, when I really should be speaking up. Some of my co-workers have been here 15+ years, it is just one of those companies where people don’t leave, which is great, but right now I feel like too much of a newbie. I really need to get over this and speak up!

Now, less serious ones:

  •  People Watching Me Eat. This is kind of weird, but I eat to eat if that makes sense. I am trying to get better about slowing down, but I got in a horrible habit of scarfing down food in college because I wanted to get to the library to study or off to other meetings for the newspaper or PR club. Food in college was not something to “enjoy” rather something I had to do. And I still have problems. In fact, even my boyfriend is impressed with how fast I eat. I always finish eating before him. It can be really embarrassing,  so at work I usually eat at my desk because I like to get stuff done while I’m eating and I don’t want people to watch me eat. It makes me feel SO uncomfortable. I also don’t like being judged for what I’m eating. Have you ever noticed how nosy people can get about what you bring for lunch? That makes me feel extra uncomfortable. Yes I cooked last night! Surprising, I know ;)
  • Someone Touching my Nose. It makes me feel really uncomfortable. I don’t know why. It’s just weird to have someone touch your nose. My boyfriend thinks it is hilarious to do all the time just to annoy me :)

What makes you uncomfortable?

 

SEO Tips for Bloggers

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Thanks to Fran and Brynn, I found out about the Blog Every Day in May Challenge and wanted to join in today! I will skip day one for now (maybe I will tell my life story in under 250 words eventually, but honestly have no idea what to say). Today’s topic is something you know a lot about or are good at. Well today I wanted to share with you some SEO basics that might help you with your blog since I am the SEO Specialist at my company.

And I wouldn’t say this is something I’m good at per say… SEO is something you continuously build upon and I just started as the SEO Specialist along with my Copywriter duties at my company a year ago, so I have been building up from our existing online content and structure.  This past November I went to the big SES  Conference in Chicago, but aside from that and what I do for my blog, I try to keep up with it and how Google’s algorithm is changing as much as anyone else  does and can. I don’t want to go into the topic too much because I literally have read hundreds of pages from white papers/eBooks and have pages upon pages of notes on SEO, but I want to give you a few tips that I think each and every one of us can easily do on a daily basis for blogging purposes! Here we go:

First and foremost, SEO is not something you do and then set aside and never touch again. It is much like everything else you do with your blog, just as you are constantly updating your social media feeds and blog posts, you should always be thinking about SEO and how people in or outside of the blogging community might be searching for you.

You should always create unique page titles. Page titles are what appear in the search results, so you want it to tell people what it is they are going to be clicking into and you want to feed the bots your titles on pages. Ideally, each page of your blog should have a unique title. Although sometimes you want a creative title for a blog post, it is better to have a title with information. Titles should be 4-5 words max.

  • For example, one post I did was on different animal prints and what colors they go best with. The title for this page is “Animal Print & Color Combinations”– this clearly explains the page, which is good for bots crawling my page and people who are interested in this topic. I could have done a fun, creative title like “Wild Pairings,” but it would not provide the same benefit to driving traffic. 

Content is KING (or QUEEN if you prefer). It always has been and it always will be. Search engines want to direct people to websites that answer their questions or give them what they are looking for. This is why endless keywords AKA keyword stuffing is not the way to go anymore. People used to KEYWORD the crap outta their pages to show up at the top of search engines, but have poor content and bad websites. Not good. Do you like clicking through to uninformative or poorly designed sites? Nope. Neither do I. Keywords are still relevant, but must flow naturally with your content. Bots usually crawl the top of your page, so it is important to have your most relevant information at the top of the page.

  • I see a lot of room for improvement for this out in the blogging world if people are wanting to drive traffic organically. I LOVE reading about bloggers’ personal stories, I love reading about their weekends, etc. etc. and I write about it too, all the time. But I really think if you are wanting to drive more people to your blog, you should also be incorporating information about the outfit. I know it can be boring to talk about the step by step process of how you put an outfit together, but here is where you can get creative with your writing. YAY for creativity! I wish I could give you a good example, but this just has to come from what you know about your clothes, trends, shopping and what you are wanting to accomplish with each post. Make sense? E-mail me if you have specific questions about this.
  • Another GREAT tool if you are writing a review or a post that you think a lot of people would be interested in is Google’s Keyword Tool. Simply type in words or keywords you are currently incorporating in your post and BAM, you have a whole page of similar words and suggestions as well how many global monthly searches there are for that word.

And honestly, that’s it! Add some tags to your posts, but it that isn’t as important as it used to be. In fact, at the conference I went to, we were told to leave metatag fields blank. Useful, relevant content is key and you will be set to go!

Here are a couple of GREAT resources if you haven’t ever read into the topic and want to learn even more:

HubSpot White Papers & EBooks

Google’s Search Engine Optimization Starter Guide

HubSpot has everything you could possibly want to learn and a couple of great ones to download are “17 SEO Myths You Should Leave Behind in 2013″ and “Learning SEO from the Experts: A Step-by-Step Guide.”  These are free, you just need to fill out a short form (name, e-mail, marketing challenges). All are saved on my desktop as a PDF so if you want, just e-mail me and I can get those to you without having to enter your information!

Hope you enjoyed the post. Let me know if you would like to see more posts like this in the future. I have a couple other ideas that I could talk about related to SEO, marketing and branding your blog.

Nighttime Skin Care Routine

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I decided to do a night time routine post because as much as my everyday beauty routine is important, my night time aka beauty sleep time is just as important if not more. Now I have to be honest, I have been COMPLETELY guilty of not washing my face in the past. Especially during college. Too tired, too lazy, too much to drink? (only a few times…) Bad habits in college probably don’t help with my already acne-prone, oily skin. I have been much better about my nightly skin routine since college and it has paid off. I wake up feeling refreshed with glowing skin (even though I still suffer from breakouts, although these have gotten much better over the past few years). One thing I have been wanting to splurge on is a Clarisonic Cleansing Brush but haven’t done so yet. Is it worth it?! Anyway, let’s talk about my current routine.

 

1. I start off with Neutrogena Naturals Purifying Pore Scrub to clean off my face and makeup. I gently rub over my eyes and eyelashes to remove eye makeup as well and pat dry with a towel. This leaves my face feeling refreshed and clean, and also gets off a lot of my makeup. I haven’t been using a makeup remover in awhile, but sometimes I will use a little petroleum jelly to help get the extra makeup off my eyes. It works like a charm, is inexpensive and doesn’t take a lot.

 

2. Next I use an ALOCHOL-FREE toner and right now my favorite inexpensive one is Neutrogena Alcohol-Free Toner. It gives you that extra deep clean that just can’t be accomplished with face wash. I’m always surprised how much dirt sinks down in my pores during the day! P.S. I use alochol-free because my dermatologist told me too. I have sensitive skin and I think alochol-based toners are too harsh on the skin. I would recommend alochol-free to anyone. Another toner I love (but is a little more pricey) is the Arbonne RE9 Advanced Regenerating Toner.

 

3. Right now my nightly eye cream routine includes the Bremenn Upper Eyelid Lifter for my eyelids and the Cindy Crawford Meaningful Beauty Eye Cream for around my eyes and under eyes. I really love the Meaningful Beauty Eye Creme and have been using it with the Bremenn Upper Eyelid Lifter I got last year. Both seem to work well, but then again I am mid-twenties so I don’t have too much of a problem. I do have crows feet though so eye cream is VERY important to me! Do you have any recommendations for what I use next? I have also used Ole Henrikson Total Truth Eye Cream, which gave good moisture and smelt amazing. I would definitely recommend that one and the Meaningful Beauty Eye Cream.

 
4. I was so excited to be selected for Influenster’s Voxbox for Aveeno Positively Radiant Intensive Night Cream sample because I have always loved Aveeno products and it seriously has been great! First off, this cream is only $14.99. If you are an avid beauty fan like me, you probably know that most night creams don’t come cheap, which makes it very difficult to test and find out what you truly like or what is best for your skin. I depend on user reviews for this. But trust me on this one, it just takes a little bit of the cream, which smells AMAZING, and you rub it on your neck and face. A little bit goes a LONG way! This cream is supposed to “ help to reduce the appearance of discoloration, uneven tone and blotchiness, revealing healthier-looking skin,” and I would agree that so far my skin has looked healthier and helped with discoloration and uneven tone. I have only been using it a few weeks though, so I will do a FULL blog review in the next week or two.

***I received Aveeno Positively Radiant Intensive Night Cream complimentary of Influenster.  All opinions stated above ARE MY OWN.

5. I have been using Decleor Aroma Night Balm for almost a year now and I still have probably a couple months left before the container is gone. It is a little bit more pricey, but totally worth it for how long it has lasted. I absolutely LOVE this stuff. If you are looking for something to soften, brighten and really give your skin that glowing look overnight, this is it! It really helps moisturize my skin overnight, and helps heal my acne scars, which I get from time to time. If you have dry or itchy skin, I’ve read that this night balm is great for that too. Just rub a little bit in between your fingers, it almost melts in your hands like wax and then apply with light, sweeping strokes to neck and face. I still use this, even with my addition of the Aveeno Night Cream because it helps with acne scarring. I also think you can’t moisturize your face enough, even if you have oily skin like I do…especially over night!

6. Eye mask = a great night of beauty sleep! Seriously people. I had no idea that these things actually helped. I just thought you looked cute and it would help make the room a bit darker, but honestly since receiving a complimentary night mask (not the owl once pictured above… I just LOVE this one and you can find it at Etsy)  I have been sleeping better, which also means I’ve been having more crazy dreams :)

Any questions? Recommendations? Things I NEED to try?! Let me know and comment below!

Floral Blazer

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This past weekend my older sister, her fiance and my parents were in town to take care of some wedding tasks. The wedding is taking place in downtown Minneapolis in October, so they get to travel here to get everything planned. I LOVE it because that means I don’t have to travel and I still get to see my family more this year. Win, win WIN! Anyway, to run errands such as choosing the groom’s tuxedo, taking a look at the chapel and wedding photo opportunities (and grabbing a mid afternoon beer), I thought it would be a great time to wear (and show off) my new floral blazer. I paired it with plain white t-shirt (borrowed from my boyfriend), my teal skinny jeans and mint pumps. With some jewelry accents, like my favorite Lia Sophia bracelets and this gorgeous mint chain link bracelet from Sira & Mara, everything felt just right!

Do you own a floral blazer? How would you style it? I am definitely trying to figure out new ways to wear it, but I think it will be versatile piece.

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Head to Toe: Casual Style

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I am very excited to share my first post featuring items from 10DollarMall.com. As you might have guessed, 10DollarMall.com is a online clothing and accessory store with items $10 or under (items for women, juniors, children and men). I am excited to collaborate with 10DollarMall.com because I believe that you don’t have to spend a lot to look great and it is nice to know there is a place out there where everything is $10 or under. 10DollarMall.com graciously gave me a gift card to pick out some items to style and I look forward to sharing future outfit posts with you too!

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This casual look is totally inspired by something I saw off the streets of London last summer!  This outfit was perfect yesterday for hanging out with the family and going about my usual errand-running Sunday. It will also be great in the future for shopping or happy hours/drinks with friends. I LOVE this bright orange blouse, it will be a great addition to my wardrobe as I can pair it with cardigans and blazers for work and scarves or layered necklaces for casual style. These leggings are MY NEW FAVORITE! They are high quality and better than my favorite faux leather leggings that I have been obsessed with for the past few years. I mean they cover up all of the flaws of the lower part of my body, who doesn’t love that? And these glitter oxfords?! How cute are they? Just the perfect touch to this outfit.

So here’s the honest deal for those of you interested in shopping here. Although I wouldn’t make this my first store to shop at if I was building a professional work wardrobe, it  has some amazing steals and beautiful pieces (including this blouse that I can and WILL be wearing to the office with a blazer or cardigan).  I found that it has amazing blouses that I would wear to work and has pants, leggings, tops and dresses I would definitely wear on the weekends, week nights to happy hour or when I travel.  The clothing is fairly high quality and I imagine these pieces will last me awhile. If you go there you will find a great variety of styles, colors and sizes at a great price! I had a hard time choosing from their vast selection, I mean it is worth going through every page to see everything they have.

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April Budget

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1. Floral One Should Top in Fuschia - Questhaven Fashions $10.00 – $3.50 in promo codes + $3.25 S&H = $9.75 I had an additional promo code I got on Facebook for liking their fan page, so when I saw this top, I had to make it mine. I love the color and flower details, plus with the right blazer or cardigan I can also wear it to work and easily transition into a cute date night, happy hour or going out look!

2. Steve Madden Trench CoatShopGoodWill  Won Bid at $16.00 + $11.53 S&H = $27.53 The PRICE TAGS from T.J.Maxx were still on this item at a cost of $59.99, so I still paid half of the cost for the trench (even at a discount store) with S&H, so I feel okay even though I wouldn’t normally pay $11.53 for S&H

3. Midi Strap Dress in Orange Red Asos $21.91 On Sale + Free S&H = $21.91

4. Schutz Gilberta Black HeelsShopGoodWill Won Bid at $9.00 + $11.50 S&H = $21.50 I paid a little more for S&H, but I don’t mind because when I saw these on ShopGoodwill, I knew I had to have them! They were the perfect basic pair of black pumps and when I looked up the cost of Schutz Gilberta heels, they normally run for $160 a pair. So I’d say I got another great deal! See how I wore them recently here.

5. Copacabana HeelsJustFab $39.95 + Free S&H = $39.95 I have been dying to get a pair of strappy sandals like this, but resisted for awhile. Then I saw these in mint, and had to make them mine.

6. Whitney Floral Heels - ShoeDazzle $22.57 – $9.95 for VIP members + Free S&H = $15.82 These babies were on my Spring Wishlist. So I am pretty pumped about finally having a pair of fun, colorful floral heels!

7. Leaf Floral Print BlazerLulu’s $3.00! I won the Word Wednesday daily contest on Lulu’s Facebook (they have really easy daily contests, like their page to enter these contests) and was credited $50 to my account. $46 + $7 S&H = $53 – $50 in Account Credit = $3.00

TOTAL: $139.46

So I was $39.46 over my budget. Not the best, but not bad either. I got two of my closet needs, a trench coat and black heels, so I am feeling good about that. I have also been wanting to add more colorful/patterned blazers to my collection, so I was so excited when I won $50 in store credit to Lulu’s and found this beautiful floral blazer for under $46. Also, I wanted to challenge myself to spend less than $100 a month. It’s not that it doesn’t fit into my overall budget, I just have so much already, it just doesn’t make sense to keep adding and adding things I want. So for the new dress, one shouldered top and two pairs of heels, I am excited to have these things but they weren’t needed. I guess I don’t feel bad about my overspending in clothing this month just because I’m still meeting my other budgeting goals. But again, next month I’m challenging myself to $100. I have a lot of weddings coming up and those are going to get expensive, so the less I spend on clothes/shoes, the better!

***I got two new pairs of jeans, a blouse and blazer from the Easter Bunny (aka my Mom) at the end of March. I don’t normally include gifted items from friends, family, boyfriend in these posts. Do you? Should I? I just everyone to know that I am being completely honest with my budget and include ALL of my purchases in this monthly roundup!

Linking up with Budgeting Bloggers over at Franish!